What is this about?
This online workshop is about learning how to talk about sex and intimacy, especially where silence or shame may have shaped our voices.
It takes place as a 3×3-hour online event for those identified as women only, meeting with the same group in a safer, supportive, guided space.
photo credit: Marion Neumann
An Invitation to Talk About What We Were Never Taught to Say
WHEN?
On Mondays with the same group - 6pm-9pm
Feb 9th
Feb 16th
March 2nd
Many of us feel it:
A tightening in the chest.
A blank mind.
A nervous laugh.
The moment the topic of sex comes up.
Not because we don’t care — but because we were never given the space, language, or permission to talk about it safely.
This online workshop is for people who:
Feel shy, blocked, or anxious when talking about sex
Want to speak more openly about desire, boundaries, needs, or questions
Carry shame, confusion, or silence around sexuality
Are curious — but scared to start the conversation
You do not need to be experienced, confident, or “sex-positive.”
You only need curiosity and a willingness to go gently.
About the Workshop
This is a slow, supportive process, not a crash course or performance space.
Across three sessions, we will:
Explore why talking about sex feels so difficult
Gently unpack shame, fear, and learned silence
Build language for talking about sex — without pressure or exposure
Practice speaking and listening in ways that feel safe and respectful
Learn how to stay connected to yourself while in vulnerable conversations
Sharing is always optional. Listening is participation.
This Space Is
Trauma-aware
Inclusive and non-judgmental
Confidential
Respectful
This is about communication, not performance.
Why This Matters
When we can’t talk about sex, we often can’t talk about:
Boundaries
Consent
Pleasure
Discomfort
Desire
Or what we don’t want
Learning to talk about sex is really about learning to talk about ourselves — with honesty, care, and courage. Thus, it is personal and also political.
If You’re Nervous, You’re Probably in the Right Place
If reading this already brings up discomfort, curiosity, or a quiet “maybe” — that’s enough.
You don’t need to be ready.
You don’t need to know what to say.
We’ll begin exactly where you are.
PRICE and explanation of the sliding scale
I would like to make this workshop accessible to lower incomers and in order to do that I have created a sliding scale so the higher incomers can support the lower incomers.
Moreover, my needs lay in having my energy and work I put into organizing and facilitating my events valued, along my needs for sustainability acknowledged.